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Barkley Place

The residents of the very-assisted wing of the assisted living home gather in the living room to wait for dinner. Their walkers and some wheelchairs fill any empty spaces. Some have come on their own, starting almost an hour ago; others are brought by the attendants. The lone man came first, and sits sleeping in his chair in the middle of them all.

Posted on 21 February 2025 by andyrew 2 min

New Years eve

The young woman walking alone down the dark street just before the start of the New Year paused often, her head turned toward the brightly lit house from which happy voices could be heard. As the midnight hour got closer her pace slowed almost to a halt, as she listened to the sounds of celebration from the houses around. Then, she began to hurry, trying to make her Kleenex last until she got home.

Posted on 20 February 2025 by andyrew 2 min

The Poetry of Walking

Seeing your neighbor approaching on his regular walk
You prepare your greeting

The approach, greeting, response, and good-bye
All without either breaking stride
Requires careful thought
To avoid the banal or repetitious

Posted on 20 February 2025 by andyrew 1 min

Aunt Alvina

Gasgonade River

     When I was a young girl my parents spent many weekends at the “club house,” which consisted of two houses on stilts along the Gasgonade River. The men fished, running trot lines four times a day, and the women cared for the children and cleaned and cooked and read Mickey Spillane mysteries. These houses are owned by my two uncles, and these weekends are filled with easy camaraderie and a lot of teasing. After supper and before running the last trot line they play cards and drink beer, laughing and often accusing each other of cheating, while the kids “sleeping” on the porch listen.

Posted on 19 February 2025 by andyrew 4 min

Wi Spa

LA Sunrise

Having spent a satisfying Morning with Mom, we decided to go grab a bite to eat, then walk Torrey Pines State Beech for Sunset. It was a totally-fantastic day!

She asks "Where are we to spend our time tonight (given that I had not made sleep accommodations for that Friday)"?

'I don't really know . . . maybe we can find a hotel in the LA area that's close to the airport?'

[She immediately dives-down into her phone, and produces a solution]

"Wi Spa . . . it's gana be great."

Posted on 11 August 2023 by andyrew 7 min

Spaces

Despair and feeling hopelessness are languages that many are not able to speak.

I am heartbroken when I read the stories of those who have reached a "I cannot do 'this' any more" cusp-point.

I am heartbroken because I have been faced with such a cusp.

Posted on 30 June 2023 by andyrew 2 min